Break the Cycle of Generational Trauma

You Are Your Answer!

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Welcome to the Garden of Healing Where You are Perfect Enough.

Planted in possibility, blooming in freedom. 🌿 Experience the spirit of Bye Bye Shame —You Belong Somewhere You Feel Free through ‘Wildflowers’ by Tom Petty.

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The Courage to Be the Red Leaf: Healing Generational Shame by Putting Yourself First

August whispers change. But for those healing from generational trauma, that whisper can feel more like a roar.
What does a person do with a roar when they’ve been taught to stay silent?

A wildfire of emotion rises—bound to the body and mind like something unwanted stuck to the sole of your shoe. This storm of possibility mixed with trepidation is unsettling. The time can be perfect enough to take your next or first step to heal from generational trauma.

Allow yourself . . .

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Permission to Pivot: Reclaiming Your Right to Shift

We map our days before we even get out of bed. Plans, preferences, expectations. And then—life invites us to pivot.

From the moment you put your feet on the floor in the morning and walk to the bathroom, kitchen and out the door on your way to work, school, shopping, errands—Everyday living is based on a plan. Then something happens and you pivot. …..

The garden is a boundless teacher! We can learn from plants — unexpected windy conditions, hail, scorching heat, pests that land on them and they cannot move! “When plants endure stress from weather and predators, they actually develop properties that keep the animals that snack on them healthier and more resilient.”

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Celebrate Pretty Well Wins

Celebrate the “Pretty Well” Wins: Organic Fertilizer for Grand Successes

Every day is filled with countless victories and Blessings hiding in plain sight that deserve applause. These are the ‘Pretty Well’ wins—the moments when things didn’t go perfectly but deserve to be acknowledged. Celebrating ‘Pretty Well’ wins reflects the beauty of a connection to nature and humankind to keep our Perfect Enough™ Mindset blossoming.

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Perfect Enough Mindset

Perfect Enough Mindset: A healing tool for shame and perfectionism

Many of us were bullied into believing we are fundamentally flawed. The critic may have been a parent whose words became part of our internal soundtrack. That shame trail—stretching backward through generations—was often amplified by hardship, depression, war, and loss. It's easy to inherit a survival mindset that distorts grace and limits healthy boundaries. Healing begins with recognizing: You are not broken.

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Shame Runs Deep

Shame runs deep. Its stigma—what someone says or does to you, often projecting their own wounds—can become entangled with your sense of self.

Before we confront shame, we must understand its roots. Shame is a blend of words, actions, and judgments imposed by someone in no rightful place to define who you are. In its harshest form, it’s loud, blatant, and deeply hurtful.

Breaking Generational Trauma: A Guide

Welcome to our Garden of Healing to Create a Life YOU Love!